Book Discussion Session Two

Another great group came out yesterday to discuss the first three chapters of Part Two over soup and cornbread.  We welcomed a guest discussion leader, the Rev. Steve Austin, for the first portion of our gathering. 

Our conversation began - and stayed with - the chapter on Hospitality: Welcoming Strangers.  Early in the chapter, the author describes her experience while visiting a Methodist church in Naples, Florida.  She recounts the warm welcome they received, and she describes the comingling of all ages and backgrounds doing the same - welcoming each other.  "It appears to be a congregation in which wayfarers and strangers have become friends," writes Butler-Bass.

We discussed our own practice of greeting newcomers, and we talked additionally about how we might both strengthen relationships between present members and reach out to invite others.  We looked at our Mission Statement, which reads: "Our purpose is to follow Jesus Christ and to keep Christ at the center of our lives.  We aspire to strengthen our identity as a home of extravagan welcome where friends and strangers alike encounter God's love."

Once people arrive here at Church of Christ, what do they find?  Who or what awaits them?  Is there an understood or implied "password" that gets one through the door comfortably?
Butler-Bass notes that after she had finished her congregation visits, she asked her then seven year-old daughter which was her favorite.  Her daughter answered without pausing that it was the church where she heard rock music and where she was greeted and treated well by a teenage member.

We noted that true hospitality is offered not in consideration of what we might "get in return," but rather as part of who we are called to be.  Butler-Bass writes, "Christians welcome strangers as we ourselves have been welcomed into God through the love of Jesus Christ."

We talked at length about if we as a congregation are willing to pay the costs of becoming ever more hospitable and welcoming.  Will we give up the ease of the status quo and go beyond our "comfort zones" in order to be who God calls us to be?

Comments

Kate Persons said…
Steve was a great facilitator. Thanks for inviting him to join us. It's daunting to think about how we change who we are, not just what actions we take. We can't act more welcoming or hospitable unless we truly ARE more welcoming and hospitable. I can't wait to talk about the section on diversity. Curious to hear how diverse others perceive our congregation to be. I don't feel I know enough people sufficiently to be able to fully describe our diversity (or not).
"Christians welcome strangers ..." reminds me of a quote from an early European pioneer in America. He observed of the Native Americans that "savages pride themselves on being hospitable to strangers."

Do we need to become less civilized in our journey as Christians? Something to think about.
Erick Olsen said…
To Kate - Thanks for posting! One of the key learnings from the book for me has been to consider "being" church in addition to "doing" church. In the end we are more than a sum of parts or programs; we are the Body of Christ locally known. This, of course, leads rightly into questions about diversity beyond tolerance and into communion. Great stuff!
Erick Olsen said…
To Hiking Humanitarian - Welcome back! I would relish the chance to become less civilized if doing so means finding greater joy through harmony with others, the planet, self, and the Creator. Bring that on.

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